Are we Homesteaders?
I remember years ago, while browsing blogs online, I came across a post about homesteading. This caught my attention. “Did the government reopen the Homesteading Act?” I wondered. I started reading and researching and, to be honest, I was a bit disappointed. I was hoping to find something new and exciting, but what I found was, these homesteaders lived similar lives to ours. They were doing many of the same things we were did. They gardened, raised chickens, baked bread, and so on. This made me question, “Are we homesteaders?”
Country, when country wasn’t cool
If you’ve read my about page, you know that my husband and I were raised in the country. We grew up with gardens and animals, and with mommas who stayed home to raise kids and keep house. This has always been the norm for us. I joke with my husband and say he was raised in 1850. (he’s 46). His family lived deep in the woods in an old homeplace that had been in their family for over 100 years. They ran pigs in the woods, like in Old Yeller, and rounded them up annually for hog butchering day. They grew most of their own food, kept cows and chickens and I don’t believe my husband ever had store bought milk until he went to college. The women canned the harvest and prepared home-cooked meals. The boys spent their summers baling hay and hauled logs out of the woods to split for firewood during the cooler months. His family home was frozen in time.
Although I was born on the outskirts of Houston, I grew up running barefoot down dirt roads. We went back to our roots and lived a quiet country life. Not quite as historically as my husband, but definitely a traditional rural lifestyle. We two country bumpkins grew up, got married, and continued to live the lives we knew, raising our children with dirt between their toes.
Are we homesteaders?
There was a time when living a rural lifestyle wasn’t popular, but there is great value in it and it’s good to see people returning to the land. I remember a time, as a young mom and homemaker, when I felt very alone. People thought I was odd for using a clothesline or making my own biscuits and butter. Some thought we were crazy for homeschooling our children or not allowing them some of the modern conveniences many kids had at the time. We wanted more for our family, or we wanted less because, in many cases, less is more. So, we turned off the TV, pushed open the windows, gathered eggs, picked berries, made soap, milked goats and sat at the table to eat home-grown, home-cooked meals. Are we homesteaders? Maybe. Some would probably say so. We just see ourselves as regular country people.
i just love reading your post, thank for writing them.
Thank you and thank you for reading them! I enjoy writing them. 🙂
Yes, Jen.. I think the new term for country is “homesteading”. We were doing it because frankly that’s all we knew during our childhood, your childhood, your hubby’s childhood. So our boys for the most part just keep right on doing the things they’ve always done. There’s little difference. It’s normal, it’s right for you, them, us. It taught us all hard work is not a dirty word, and it gives us the peace that comes with living a Godly life sustaining existence. In fact, I believe the Bible teaches us the agrarian lifestyle is good for us. After all, Adam and Eve started out in a beautiful garden.
This doesn’t mean those that have drifted off to the city are lost or lost their way, it just means they chose a different path for a while, but I would also bet deep down inside they never forget their raisings.. and some may even return to it in their older years. Life has a way of instilling in our hearts the things that made us who we really are from the very beginning of our earliest memories. So when those boys griped and complained about hauling hay in the hot summer sun or splitting tons of firewood, they just didn’t know or realize they were storing up memories that would tie them to the land and maybe even bring them back to the land in God’s perfect time.
I also remember being the odd girl out when growing up because of our lifestyle. We were so old-school. We didn’t have the modern conveniences so the other kids thought we were weird. But what we did have was a loving home, Christian values, know-how, and a can-do attitude that got us through the rough patches.
Love you Sweetie. Great post!!
Agreed and well said! Love you too and thank you.